Whats a way that i could keep myself clean? im so unorganized and my parents are yelling at me for it?

i can never keep anything organized, (binders, lockers,room,etc..) and i keep getting yelled at. so i need some advice of how to keep organized. and right now im not really in the mood to get yelled at, ( im having a nervous meltdown from my parents fighting, and the last thing i want is to get in a big fight) i loose EVERYTHING i will put something in my binder and tell myself not to loose. then when i need it, ITS GONE! i really need help. this is not only at school but at home. my rooms are always dirty and im constantly loosing my chargers. or my ipod touch, please help me with tips on staying organized and not to loose things at home and at school!im starting high school and i plan on getting good grades, one problem. im so unorganized! like in 8th grade i had a binder with dividers but i would be too lazy to put my stuff in the binder since most papers didn't hole punches or it just took time so i would just stuff my papers in my backpack. i did the same with my pencils, so i could never find anything!!!! i really want to stay organized through high school and i really do not want to use a binder! any tips r suggestions? thank you!! study tips would also be appreciated!